"To love God as he ought t be loved, we must be detached from all temporal love. We must love nothing but him, or if we love anything else, we must love it for his sake." Anonymous

This is agape love, which God calls us to strive for. This is the love we will experience in eternity when we are in the presence of the All in All. Agape love involves love of others but only because of him. Thus, the two Commandments: Love God totally and love neighbor because of God. This love is not impossible. It comes from grace and our desire to do the will of God, which is love. That is what the Saints discovered as they fell in love with God, but still served and loved others. It is not a matter of exclusion, but priority.