"In order to avoid discord, never contradict anyone except in case of sin or some danger to a neighbor; and when necessary to contradict others, do it with tact and not with temper." St. Louis

Do we always have to be right? Do we always have to win? If so, is it because of pride and self-righteousness? Does it really matter before God for us to show we know it all?  Do we have to always draw the line in the sand in everything? It is better for us to build the other up than to tear one down. In doing so, we are glorifying God by choosing to love. To live in unity is better than to live in discord. It is not "peace at all cost" but love at all cost.